Sunday, January 23, 2011
My brother who happen to heard about this,feeling unhappy..He said I don't need to yelling at him that way..but I don't know..I was just too mad..Later,I found out that he is actually a member of a gang..like SUZURAN..I was like,WHATTT???frankly speaking,I'm scared..I'm scared if he will do something to me and now I'm going to apologize to him for my rudeness..
Just now my brother scold me again for my honest words to my other housemate..and he looked like hurts by my words..I don't know what else should I do..I even scold my brother back..But thinking about it back,I knew it's my fault..I'm too stubborn with my honesty..
I used to be to honest..I spit out whatever I felt in my head..My friends said that I'm way too honest and I hurt people's feeling..I have no idea unless someone's remind me..I like people been 100% honest weather it's something I like or not..
What I learned today and from my experience of hurting people for my honesty is devastating and there is nothing gained from it in any way..My exact words are it's best to be honest, but being rude for the sake of honesty isn't appreciated. I will try my best to be honest but I'll layer it with positives or compliments..that will received better I guess?